Well, first off, this is not going to be a lesson in exhaustion. Not a lesson on how to set a timer for 20 minutes for each activity so you can do it all.
This is a lesson in having it all, doing it all but only doing the stuff you want to do. And in order to only do the stuff you want to do you gotta get clear on what you don’t want.
That’s the hard part.
You may KNOW what you don’t want to do….but, you don’t know HOW to not do those things.
We are women for God’s sake, we are capable of so much, multi tasking, whether it is folding laundry while talking on the phone, or cooking dinner with a babe on the hip or building an empire while….
You can’t do it all and do it all well.
That’s another big point of clarity.
Building an empire and being great at everything else takes planning, takes discipline and takes owning what you really want.
Yes, planning and discipline, how about from this point forward you think of those two things as the KEYS to your FREEDOM.
You see, when you first decide what you want, what jazzes you, then it is easy to say NO to stuff that doesn’t matter…the committee, the 2 dozen cupcakes for the classroom, the laundry even.
When you have discipline to follow through on saying NO more often, it is so easy to say YES to the empire building.
And what is building an empire gonna get you?
All the stuff you really want.
Think about it. What does FREEDOM mean to you?
What would having an extra 8, 10, 16 thousand a month mean to you and your family?
What would if feel like for you to LIVE OUT your potential, your calling?
And what does having more TIME to do the things you love mean?
You can have it all, you can do it all…
The key word here is ALL.
And only ALL the things that jazz you up!
So my dear, fabulous friend…what gets you all jazzed up?
If you found a genie bottle and could rub it and have whatever you wanted…what would that be?
What would your release? What clutter in your life would you get rid of?
Yeah, clutter…the mental kind, the physical kind, the people kind and the good ole in your closet kind of clutter?
How would this allow you to have it all, do it all and build an EMPIRE?
We do not have to do it all in order to feel whole, worthy, deserving….that is so 1985. We are at a point in women’s development were we can focus on what we are great at and hire the rest out.
Yeah, build an EMPIRE and hire someone to do the laundry, clean the house, buy the 2 dozen cupcakes you need for school, send out emails, do ALL the stuff that you don’t like to do, maybe even hate to do.
What would that look like in your life?
AND how could you enjoy that guilt free?
Guilt free EMPIRE building. Now that jazzes ME UP!
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