One Secret To Having It All

by | Regret Proof Life® Coaching: life, love, thinking, mindset

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Last night I had a date with John.
Normal kind of date. Dinner and then we saw a stand up comedian. So fun, I love when he is the planner.
Our sitter was available.
And this weekend, we are taking advantage of the three days and having quality family time.
I plan on leaving the computer behind, getting good book (Stephen King’s new one, anyone read it yet?), having some good food and playing good ole family games like, Uno, Jenga and Cribbage.
What do you have planned?
Do you plan?
Have you made those you are in relationship with a priority by planning?
I have a long list too.
There is:
  • John
  • River
  • House
  • volunteering at school
  • cats
  • clients
  • business
  • yoga
  • girls gotta do her nails
  • groceries
  • doctor appointments
  • life stuff that just comes up!

What is important to you?

What do you have to do to HAVE IT ALL AND HAVE IT ALL AT THE SAME TIME??

Do you actually do it?

There is ONE SECRET TO HAVING IT ALL…

Yes, it takes a strategy. Yes, you have to be disciplined. Yes, it really is a habit.

Is it hard?

No, thinking it is hard is a lie you tell yourself.

You tell yourself this because you worry it will be hard, you will have to leave people behind, you will have to change, you will have to be uncomfortable….and so on.

What is that old saying about habits?

Pick one: Being miserable is a habit, so is happiness PICK ONE. Old habits are hard to break, new habits are hard to make…

You get my point.

The question I get allll the time. How do you do it all? How do you have it all? (and you know sometimes they even ask, Are you really happy? Aren’t you tired?)

Yes, sometimes I am tired, that is what a nap is for!

Yes, I am really happy.

Yes, it is a habit I chose to embrace!!

Come on, why wait to be happy?

Why wait for love, for success, for money!

I know you can do this too!

Why wait?

When are you going to choose to have it all?

When are you going to claim it?

When are you going to change your habit of NOT HAVING IT ALL???

You have a HABIT OF NOT HAVING IT ALL….

You have a HABIT…..

Here is one of my “secrets” to having it all.

Creating a vision board, goal poster, order to the universe, law of attraction magnet….
What ever YOU want to call it, I tell you it has worked for me for 20+ years.
This is one of the ways I am able to have it all.
I create a new poster every year, or when I have a new goal.
EMOTION HAS TO BE ATTACHED TO YOUR DESIRES, WANTS AND GOALS….
In this video, can you describe the FEELING of what I am going for??

2015 goal poster

 

The zebra rug is the exact same one as River has in her room!
Send me a picture of your vision board!!
I believe in you!
Mary
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